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A 42-Day Course · Free

Coach Dad

The hardest player you coach lives in your house. This is for the man in the third-base box who is also the man at the dinner table.

You learned to hold your patience with another man's kid a long time ago. You praise effort. You stay calm after the error. You make the quiet one feel seen. Then you get home, and the kid who shares your last name gets the worn-out version of you, the one with no patience left.

Coach Dad is about closing that gap. The patience you already perform in public, under pressure, with people watching, brought home to the game nobody sees. One short lesson a day, six weeks. It borrows from research on how we calm down, pay attention, and connect, and points it at the field and the family. Some of that research is strong, some is early, and we tell you which is which. The first module is Stay Loose.

Module 1

Stay Loose: The Game Nobody Sees

Everybody sees you keep your cool in the third-base box. Nobody sees the Tuesday night at home when you are tired and the kids will not quit. That is the real game, and it is the one this course trains. Six innings, forty-two days, one short lesson a morning.

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What a day looks like

A short read, a three-minute reset, one move to run that day with your team and your kids, and a reflection. A box score tracks your streak and your batting average. Two or three minutes.

What you get
  • One short lesson each morning. A read, a three-minute breathing reset, one thing to try that day, and a reflection.
  • Six innings, forty-two days. A dashboard with your day streak and your batting average.
  • Printable. Print a single lesson or the whole workbook.
  • Saved on this device. No sign-up, no email, no cost.

The program, at your pace

Forty-two days, six weeks, one lesson a day. Your progress is saved on this device, so you can close the tab and pick up where you left off. Miss a day and the game waits. You cannot strike out of this.

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Draws on research on emotion, attention, and connection, plus plenty of plain coaching judgment. Every source is listed inside the course, with notes on how strong it is.